Giving Good Aural...

I'm sometimes attracted to people more by their voice than by their looks. I've been intimate with a few people who would not be described as traditionally attractive, but who have been beautiful in my eyes because of the way they sound, and use words.

Words have a power over me I really can't explain. They have to come from someone who I'm already attracted to though, and have feelings for. I roll my eyes and sigh when I get memos from people who seem to think 'I want to fuck you' is a good introduction. But once I've started to get a little crush on someone, the impact of the words they use can be spectacular. I love getting texts and emails from people I'm into - even if it's relatively tame - but the sight of something very saucy can turn me on and get my knickers wet almost instantly. Especially if it's got swear words in it.

On the other hand, you also have the joy from sounds made in person. The smell of a body leaning in, the touch on your shoulder, the whispered voice, 'I'm going to fuck your mouth'.

Then the sounds of nails on skin, the echoing slap, the cries you make yourself, the sound of your own voice saying 'no, please stop, don't, you're hurting me, please, please'. The noise of the cane on your flesh. The sound your clothes make when they rip, a stocking tears, the zip opens. Your half-swallowed sobs.

Then the comfort afterwards - 'shhhh, you did so well, I'm so proud of you, you're such a good girl'.

I love talking dirty, there's a kind of event horizon of embarrassment to be got over, but once I pass that barrier - given time or drunkenness - I get really turned on by whispering filthy little things into someone's ear. 'I want you, I need you inside me, please....please take me. I want you to make me yours'.

I store the sounds and words from people I love inside my head, tucked up like little pearls in a treasure chest, to be taken out and polished and admired every now and again, then put away until next time.